Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men. Colossians 3:23
How many times have you asked a child or grandchild to make their bed and been asked, “Why, I’m only going to mess it up again tonight?” Or suggested it would be nice if said child or grandchild picked up their room and were met with, “I like it that way.” And then there’s the after-dinner admonishment to help with the cleanup, to which we hear, “I have to do my homework.”
Surely we’ve all had times, while raising our kids or enjoying visits from grandkids, when we have felt underappreciated, unnecessary, or completely ignored. As I listened to Pastor Dennis, on Sunday morning, describing his adventure with spiders in his garage and how it seemed just a short time since he’d vacuumed all the webs away, I began to ponder how many times during the course of an ordinary day we question all the things we do simply to make life more comfortable for those around us and then wonder if anyone really noticed.
You can get off the treadmill of trying to be perfect, because you cannot buy or earn God’s love or his favor, not even with a perfect performance. Joyce Meyer
Let’s face it, we strive to be as close as possible to human perfection in everything we do. We seek the acclaim of others, we bask in their compliments, and, humility aside, we may repeat those accolades just to let others know that someone noticed.
We love it when a friend tells us how sweet our daughter is and how she is always on her best behavior when she comes to visit. Or what about when the elderly neighbor says that your son is so helpful… he volunteers to take the trash out every week. We get all puffed up with pride. Something that we have said or done must have sunk into that teenage brain besides loud music and video games. We know that those crazy kids are growing into the kind of people we hoped they would be. But then we ask ourselves, “Why won’t they do it for me? Why do they make me feel like the evil taskmaster just for asking them to do a simple chore?”
We may never grasp the workings of the teenage mind, but we can surely put aside our feelings of inadequacy. If we remember that we do the things we do to please God and not other people, we are edging toward perfection in His eyes. The most mundane chores may seem meaningless in our eyes, but when accomplished in the right frame of mind, they become beautiful acts of kindness to our Father in heaven. So, go ahead, sing praises at the top of your voice while you clean the whole house, but breeze right past that teenager’s bedroom. Remember, he or she likes it that way!
You do you, (be yourself) and then watch with humble amazement as God uses your willing, obedient, ordinary life to accomplish extraordinary things in His name. Lysa Terquerst, Embraced



grind of life, or we let ourselves sink so far into the pit of despair that we can’t see a way up from the bottom, and then along comes Jesus. He offers us a way out and a way up. No matter how rough the ride, He’ll be right there beside us, meeting us where we are and taking us where He wants us to be. He wants us to be “all in” with Him.


I contacted the company owner that evening to see if he had us scheduled for stump removal. He didn’t, but said they would get to it as quickly as they could. A week later, no one had come to claim the stump, so we called the company owner again, and, long story short, on Saturday morning, I heard a commotion outside the bedroom window, again at 7:15. You guessed it, they were here to chip the stump. (I’m sure the neighbors were thrilled.) For the next hour or so, we listened to the sound of a large stump being chipped from the ground along with the larger roots radiating from it. We were then told that he would be back, as soon as scheduling permitted, to remove the pile of chips, which now resembled a giant anthill; we’re talking more than two feet high and six feet in diameter at its base. The birds and squirrels are having a field day with it, digging, pecking, and tossing chips everywhere.
But, guess what, this year they bloomed anyway, and I was thrilled. Apparently, there must have been an old branch tucked somewhere underneath that sprouted and developed into things of beauty.

completely, meaning no money would ever change hands. Our personal finances would all be handled electronically, and cash would be another dinosaur of our past. But, even if cash and checkbooks are going the way of two-dollar bills and cursive writing, we still need to know how to make and stay on a budget, and that’s a real challenge for many people. Disagreements over money rank high on the list of reasons why relationships go astray.

Temptation is knowing what is right while still feeling the desire to satisfy our inevitable curiosity.
Let’s face it, she likes most any kind of shopping. She was ready to head out the door as soon as her mom left, so we grabbed a bite of lunch and began our big adventure. It doesn’t take long for her to find something she thinks she wants. She has her shopping budget and must make choices that she can live with. After careful consideration, she went home that first day with only one small item and most of her money still in her purse.
appropriate. It says that we are closing ourselves off from others, not sharing good times and bad, not helping when needed. So, just how friendly are we as a people of God?
Our society, rightfully so, considering the dangers lurking around many corners, teaches children at an early age not to speak to strangers. But, in our fear that something bad will happen to our kids, are we establishing a lifelong pattern of unfriendliness? Add to that our propensity to embrace technology, and we tend to withdraw into our own private little worlds. Strange, isn’t it, that technology opens up so many worlds to explore, but it isolates us from in-person human interaction.





I can’t imagine the terror felt by someone caught up in the violence of raging water, nor the grief so many parents, grandparents, siblings, spouses, and others are experiencing as they grapple with the awful truth of what flash flooding can accomplish. Ken and I have lived alongside rivers that were heavily prone toward flash flooding. We know how fast they can rise and have seen the devastation that can occur in just minutes. We’ve been involved in evacuations and search and recovery missions. It’s not an easy thing, and it’s one of those times when your mind wanders to questions about why God would allow something so heinous to happen. We’ll never have those answers this side of heaven, but we do know He promised to be with us in times of trouble and sorrow.