I just couldn’t get my mind wrapped around the traditions this year. I think it was partly because I have to think ahead when writing or else everything I submit will be after the fact.
Possibly it had something to do with Easter being late this year, so I was racing past it to get on with summer. Perhaps it was just because I was weather-weary; the winter had been so cold, and when spring finally tried to creep in, it brought with it severe storms and tornadoes.
Then there’s the reality that the six months leading up to Easter had been a seemingly constant blur of one medical appointment after another. I should have been grateful that they were winding down and life was a little more normal. I could list a dozen excuses, but my truth was that I just didn’t feel like keeping traditions.
Oh, I spent time every morning during the seven weeks of Lent studying devotionals, and I never failed to find myself emotionally connected to Jesus and his journey to the cross. I gathered new insights and, yes, I wept for his suffering and in the knowledge of human cruelty beyond belief, but when it came to everything else associated with Easter, I was just going through the motions.
All that changed on the evening of Good Friday. I found myself texting a neighbor and good friend. I casually asked her what she and her husband had planned for the weekend, not even thinking about it being Easter. In fact, I hadn’t planned a menu or bought special holiday foods. I asked because their weekends are special. You see, he’s an over-the-road truck driver, so he’s gone all week, and she’s a nurse who works night shifts. They have little time together, so they try to make the most of what they do have.
They are such a devoted couple, not only to each other, but to family and neighbors as well. They married later in life, and she continued to live with her parents, who actually owned the house across the street. She had cared for her dad until his passing and, more recently, her mom. That meant that she spent more time at her parents’ home than her own, but it was the life they lived. Her mom passed away in January at the age of ninety-four.
Now, back to my question about what they were doing for the weekend. She said they just didn’t know how to do Easter without Mom, so they had planned to just spend it quietly together. This is a family that always made a very big deal about holiday celebrations, and they had invited us to join them in quite a few. So the invitation just rolled right off my tongue….if you’d like to join us for dinner, we’d love to have you. They jumped quickly on board, we hastily made a dinner plan, and just like that, Easter was happening.
We shopped between storms, found that we were missing a few items, and made some arbitrary changes along the way. Ken and I watched Easter morning service online so we could get everything done in time to share with people we care about. Dinner happened in the midst of severe storm warnings and tornado watches, but we just enjoyed our time together. And I thought to myself, this is what Jesus would have wanted. He always took time from his ministry to dine and visit with people who needed a spiritual lift. This year, Easter was about being Jesus to someone else.




And let us not forget, as many of our neighbors have been learning lately, the structure of the Bradford is not conducive to providing strength. All its limbs spring forth from one central location and grow upward rather than alternately growing from a thicker main trunk and spreading outward. The central conjunction of all those branches invites moisture, eventually producing rotted wood. This unique pattern makes the species weak and easily broken when covered in ice and snow or battered by strong winds. Many a home has been invaded by a Bradford branch during one of our powerful and unpredictable weather systems. It’s not unusual to see half a tree where there once stood a lovely Bradford.


While our mundane problems are, hopefully, short-term, there are much bigger things at stake in our lives. Our culture is trying in very inventive and seductive ways to divert our attention away from Jesus, to shove our faith into obscurity. No sooner have we suffered through the memory of a crucifixion and then praised God for the resurrection of His son, than we hear horrific news stories about how God’s children are behaving toward one another. It seems we had little time to embrace the enormity of the gift we were given when evil slipped right back into our midst.
The time has come. The promise that began in Bethlehem some thirty-three years earlier is nearing fruition. A great storm is brewing—not the kind we experience here in the Ozarks in springtime—but an emotional storm of doubt and betrayal. Just a few days earlier, Jesus had been heralded as a king and now, the same crowd has adopted a mob mentality. Just a few rabble-rousers turned worshippers into haters, clamoring for the death of a man who had never committed a crime. And the kangaroo court allowed it to happen.
The day had become dark as night and the heavens roared in anger that this perfect one had to die. And at the instant when he breathed his last breath, the temple curtain was torn in half. The curtain that separated man from God was no more. Jesus had opened the pathway for all mankind to come freely to Him who would forever be our guide, our comforter, our merciful friend, our Savior.
But, let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Our tale begins this past week when Ken and I began a great new challenge; a beautiful, but slightly used, puzzle shaped like a large lighthouse that contained paintings of multiple smaller lighthouses within its borders. Understand that I am a major admirer of real-life lighthouses. If I discover we’re within a hundred miles of one, I’m ready for a detour from our planned route. So I was really anxious to see this project completed. About halfway into the construction of the puzzle, I began to have doubts that one of the key pieces had been in the box. This sometimes occurs with our flea market finds.
How often do we, in a moment of weakness, turn away from God for the lure of something better, bigger, more impressive, more fun? Judas represented all of us. But God gave us a way back. Now the choice is in our hands. Who do we follow?





And so our race this week, amongst household chores that are starting to return to a more normal cadence, has been about finding enjoyment in a beautiful but difficult puzzle, meeting a challenge, and helping each other along the way. Teamwork has certainly been key. When I get discouraged, Ken always builds me back up with his gentle, fun-loving spirit, and when one of us can’t find a specific piece, we look to the other and usually the piece turns up right under our noses, sometimes not, but we keep moving forward together, with Jesus always watching over our shoulders. We’re practicing our patience and endurance skills and I can’t help but believe that he’s smiling with us as we work through that crazy puzzle. I believe he relishes being right in the midst of our everyday lives! And when our time on earth has run its course, he’ll be waiting with open arms to welcome us into his home! Now that’s a race worth winning!





In my beds, things are stirring. Crocus are showing off their purples, yellows, and white. The Lenten rose has hidden its very early blooms under dried leaves but they are venturing out. Daffodil buds are swelling and all God’s critters are searching for a mate. My annual battle with digging squirrels is underway. And I love it—well, maybe not so much the squirrels!
Though we don’t know what grew there, we know something much more important. Jesus went there to pray about his impending sacrifice, taking with him three of his trusted disciples. We often concentrate on their lack of obedience and attention, but it would be helpful here to take a close look at Jesus, his prone body wracked with fear of the coming day, blood seeping from his pores amongst the sweat. It was here that he asked his Father to take the task before Him away— for a moment in time, he didn’t want to endure the pain. But, in the end, he told his Father that he would accept His will and carry out the conclusion of the earthly mission as set forth before time began. 