I just couldn’t get my mind wrapped around the traditions this year. I think it was partly because I have to think ahead when writing or else everything I submit will be after the fact.
Possibly it had something to do with Easter being late this year, so I was racing past it to get on with summer. Perhaps it was just because I was weather-weary; the winter had been so cold, and when spring finally tried to creep in, it brought with it severe storms and tornadoes.
Then there’s the reality that the six months leading up to Easter had been a seemingly constant blur of one medical appointment after another. I should have been grateful that they were winding down and life was a little more normal. I could list a dozen excuses, but my truth was that I just didn’t feel like keeping traditions.
Oh, I spent time every morning during the seven weeks of Lent studying devotionals, and I never failed to find myself emotionally connected to Jesus and his journey to the cross. I gathered new insights and, yes, I wept for his suffering and in the knowledge of human cruelty beyond belief, but when it came to everything else associated with Easter, I was just going through the motions.
All that changed on the evening of Good Friday. I found myself texting a neighbor and good friend. I casually asked her what she and her husband had planned for the weekend, not even thinking about it being Easter. In fact, I hadn’t planned a menu or bought special holiday foods. I asked because their weekends are special. You see, he’s an over-the-road truck driver, so he’s gone all week, and she’s a nurse who works night shifts. They have little time together, so they try to make the most of what they do have.
They are such a devoted couple, not only to each other, but to family and neighbors as well. They married later in life, and she continued to live with her parents, who actually owned the house across the street. She had cared for her dad until his passing and, more recently, her mom. That meant that she spent more time at her parents’ home than her own, but it was the life they lived. Her mom passed away in January at the age of ninety-four.
Now, back to my question about what they were doing for the weekend. She said they just didn’t know how to do Easter without Mom, so they had planned to just spend it quietly together. This is a family that always made a very big deal about holiday celebrations, and they had invited us to join them in quite a few. So the invitation just rolled right off my tongue….if you’d like to join us for dinner, we’d love to have you. They jumped quickly on board, we hastily made a dinner plan, and just like that, Easter was happening.
We shopped between storms, found that we were missing a few items, and made some arbitrary changes along the way. Ken and I watched Easter morning service online so we could get everything done in time to share with people we care about. Dinner happened in the midst of severe storm warnings and tornado watches, but we just enjoyed our time together. And I thought to myself, this is what Jesus would have wanted. He always took time from his ministry to dine and visit with people who needed a spiritual lift. This year, Easter was about being Jesus to someone else.



Some of you are aware that my husband, Ken, experienced a pulmonary embolism last fall, but before that occurred, he was dealing with a chronic light-headed feeling, which sometimes escalated to temporary dizziness, not as extreme as vertigo, but serious enough to prevent many of the activities he enjoyed. He was in the process of testing to learn the source of his lightheadedness when the blood clot sidelined him, and we had to redirect our focus.
We don’t know for sure what caused the damage to the vestibular system, but physical therapy and new lenses have worked wonders to improve his condition. The therapists really put him through his paces. At first, it was simple eye exercises, following moving objects with eyes only, then moving the head side to side and up and down while remaining focused on a motionless item. From there, he was asked to walk down a long hallway with a card of words in each hand, held out to his sides, looking back and forth to read a sentence, word one on the left card, word two on the right, and so on. Then the left card was angled above the head and the right down by his hip so that he was looking diagonally up and down to read the sentences. And, you guessed it, he had to reverse the hand positions and repeat the exercise. It kept getting more complicated from there.

Tuesday morning. And this comes following major destruction and loss of life in several states, including our own, on Friday. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve thought to myself, and sometimes verbalized, how truly “weather weary” I am. We’ve been blessed, thus far, with only downed limbs, power outages, and lots of leaf clusters throughout the yard. Others nearby have seen much worse.



I recall, in the late 1980s, our family doctor informing Ken and myself that the cholesterol level in our bodies was high. We had no idea what cholesterol was, but the doctor convinced us that if we didn’t adopt wheat bread into our diet and cut out anything else made from white flour, we were a heart attack waiting for a place to happen. That was all the warning I needed—whole wheat bread became the staple of our kitchen and even that was used sparingly. And, somewhere along the line, all the other white things we loved were removed from our diet; potatoes, rice, pasta (That was a hard one. We tried the whole wheat version, but it just wasn’t the same.) Today, our doctor wants us to eliminate even the whole wheat versions, claiming that bread of any variety is bad for the body.


And let us not forget, as many of our neighbors have been learning lately, the structure of the Bradford is not conducive to providing strength. All its limbs spring forth from one central location and grow upward rather than alternately growing from a thicker main trunk and spreading outward. The central conjunction of all those branches invites moisture, eventually producing rotted wood. This unique pattern makes the species weak and easily broken when covered in ice and snow or battered by strong winds. Many a home has been invaded by a Bradford branch during one of our powerful and unpredictable weather systems. It’s not unusual to see half a tree where there once stood a lovely Bradford.


While our mundane problems are, hopefully, short-term, there are much bigger things at stake in our lives. Our culture is trying in very inventive and seductive ways to divert our attention away from Jesus, to shove our faith into obscurity. No sooner have we suffered through the memory of a crucifixion and then praised God for the resurrection of His son, than we hear horrific news stories about how God’s children are behaving toward one another. It seems we had little time to embrace the enormity of the gift we were given when evil slipped right back into our midst.
The time has come. The promise that began in Bethlehem some thirty-three years earlier is nearing fruition. A great storm is brewing—not the kind we experience here in the Ozarks in springtime—but an emotional storm of doubt and betrayal. Just a few days earlier, Jesus had been heralded as a king and now, the same crowd has adopted a mob mentality. Just a few rabble-rousers turned worshippers into haters, clamoring for the death of a man who had never committed a crime. And the kangaroo court allowed it to happen.
The day had become dark as night and the heavens roared in anger that this perfect one had to die. And at the instant when he breathed his last breath, the temple curtain was torn in half. The curtain that separated man from God was no more. Jesus had opened the pathway for all mankind to come freely to Him who would forever be our guide, our comforter, our merciful friend, our Savior.
But, let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Our tale begins this past week when Ken and I began a great new challenge; a beautiful, but slightly used, puzzle shaped like a large lighthouse that contained paintings of multiple smaller lighthouses within its borders. Understand that I am a major admirer of real-life lighthouses. If I discover we’re within a hundred miles of one, I’m ready for a detour from our planned route. So I was really anxious to see this project completed. About halfway into the construction of the puzzle, I began to have doubts that one of the key pieces had been in the box. This sometimes occurs with our flea market finds.
How often do we, in a moment of weakness, turn away from God for the lure of something better, bigger, more impressive, more fun? Judas represented all of us. But God gave us a way back. Now the choice is in our hands. Who do we follow?



